Problems Which Come With Dating A Mexican..
hi there folks pleasant to our Channel that which was that? 14 days in the past we crafted a video clip where Joss was discussing the problems that include dating a German with dating him, specifically nicely.. nicely today we’re gonna… are you currently okay? I have allergic reaction guy! nowadays we’re gonna transform it around and I’m going to inform you all of the troubles that include dating a Mexican more precisely, this specific one particular on this page I’m so fearful of this movie! I’m gonna get offended in a major way having said that i know you adore me and I know you secretly adore all of the reasons for having me you imagine so? I’m pretty sure each and every them… how dare you guy due to the fact like I said before: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I love Mexicans. I really like this one especially Mexico is certainly a diverse nation and are therefore the folks.. yes that’s quite correct we come in each shape, personality, form and color so we don’t wish to generalize anything.. we’re not professing that each and every Mexican does those activities! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be prepared to fulfill about 100 or 200 people i love hispanic guys in some day which are portion of the family that are only section of the loved ones! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meal you will get body weight and this is a result of two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! as well as added to that it’s hard to refuse because Mexican meals is awesome scrumptious Oh yeah my god I overlook it a great deal… please send out me Enchiladas Potosinas remember to! for me way too please another reason why why you’re going to get fat due to the food is since it’s very cheap compared to Germany correct! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m basically also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re half Mexican that’s basically a stereotype i dislike I loathe whenever people tell me: you’re going to be delayed because you’re Mexican but I’m later at all times! regardless if I try my very best… that’s anything I’ve battled with forever the next level that I had to get accustomed to a good deal: you might get terrified when driving I don’t would like to generate in Mexico as well as whenever your spouse, in cases like this she, is driving a vehicle Mexico you, think that: where by are definitely the guidelines? where by are the outlines on a lawn that explain to you where lane you need to go and also the pockets dude oh my our god there is certainly a single road I have to take every time I visit my home it offers countless pockets.. I acquired them my coronary heart I’m like… once you get with an intersection there is not actually a rule that says who are able to go very first Of course! – in addition there are no indications you always inform me, usually the one within the largest road will go initially but for reasons unknown each of the Mexicans know where you can drive it’s good sense bro! it was actually the worst in Mexico Town there is a single super busy road therefore we were from a little street and the people from your tiny streets have been just going this way around all of the other vehicles in Mexico Metropolis I discovered my life move through my mind for real like seven times as well as the individuals in the ubers were like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather conditions these days? speaking with us ultimately is in fact pretty remarkable because Mexicans definitely realize how to travel in nuts scenarios! okay the next position is actually a hilarious 1 but in addition a sad one.. often for squares of potty paper is actually all that you’ll get where by would you experience that? significantly! we had been in a market in Mexico City and i also wanted to visit the toilet and that person in the front actually provided a number of squares of potty document right here, do your personal style! and I was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and i also advised him: can I have another? I didn’t know this became a challenge to suit your needs I am talking about in Germany you will find toilet papers proper next to the toilet.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah fine that doesn’t occur frequently.. I actually have to mention this occurred like 2 times to me… haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or second? If you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- ., and if you say one she gives you one square and. But no, i don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”! this is merely the way that they are they’re like this… so don’t get the dreams up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not allowing him venture out! ” which is a little bit excessive folks but… do i need to point out to you of the other day? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -alright you happen to be like.. so when I started dating you I was like “wow a completely new w0rld! ” I have got a theory however and so i know this can be gonna make me seem crazy but pick up me out I feel as if a great deal of this contemplating is shaped by telenovelas. Don’t can come for me personally! perhaps you have noticed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are extremely dramatic and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never ever about to take him clear of me! ” the reason why this young lady staring at you? this mindless $·Per cent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany people can remain at the girlfriend’s home or ladies can tell the boyfriend’s property regardless if they’re less than 18, possibly 16 they can stay in the female friends of boyfriend’s residence sinners! and also in Mexico believe that the most awful of men and women, that they are doing some really bad things which they are not able to do any place else one of the more repeated information I recieve from lovers is women which are desperately wondering me how would you make Janik realize that he cannot keep? or how to make my mother and father recognize? it’s so difficult. -it’s a hardship on us also -sure either side simply because at the start you couldn’t comprehend it that you were like “I don’t have it” I found myself 22 or 23 years whenever we began dating and so i was like “I’m so older and that i are not able to be in a similar space as her” and my sister is even older and her sweetheart couldn’t continue to be there I’m a grownup. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!